Too often seniors select a reverse mortgage lender for all the wrong reasons.  What follows is a multi-part, thorough discussion of the most important issues to consider when choosing who to do business with.  Please read all posts completely before you select a lender and loan officer.

Reverse Mortgage Price Quotes

Counselors and financial advisors admonish borrowers to “get at least 3 quotes” before making a decision on who to select for your reverse mortgage. This is the worst advice imaginable... because it infers that price is the sole determining factor in choosing a lender. Price is the very last thing you want to consider. If you blindly follow this advice you are well on the way to making a bad decision.

Ask yourself… have you merely had phone conversations with these 3 candidates… or have you actually met with them in your home; eyeball-to-eyeball ? Any lender who won’t or can’t come to your home for an initial meeting with you, your spouse and your children plus your trusted financial advisor is just not worthy of your business. Eliminate these people immediately. What’s more, if your loan officer is unwilling to meet individually with your children, your attorney and/or with your financial advisor in their respective offices or homes, run away.

Reverse Mortgage Telemarketers

Best advice is to avoid them! Telemarketing operations (boiler room phone banks) could be staffed with people who are poorly trained, of questionable background and pressured to fill sales quotas.  If there is a problem processing your loan, good luck getting the help you will need.  Some staff in these shops could have 15 minutes experience in the business.  Last week the same “loan advisor” might have been selling tires over the phone.  Do you really want a quote from this person?  When you call back next week, who will answer the phone?

Meet Reverse Mortgage Originators Face-To-Face

Meet your candidates face-to-face! You can tell a whole lot about people when you interact and observe their personal appearance. Seniors, in particular, have learned to be pretty good judges of character by observation. If you’re uncomfortable inviting a stranger into your home, arrange to meet at the local Macdonalds or Burger King. The important point is that you need face time with each of your candidates to see if they inspire you….. or do they avoid eye contact, dress unprofessionally, dominate the conversation, etc.

Ask Specific Questions – Listen to Answers

During that initial meeting, ask key questions about the originator’s personal background. This is a major financial decision you and your spouse are about to make so you want to be certain that you are dealing with an experienced, reputable individual. Questions to ask include “Exactly how many reverse mortgage loan applications have you completed ?” A reasonable number is 150 or more. “Over how many years ?” A reasonable time frame is 3-5 years. Pay exceptionally close attention to how these questions are answered. If the candidate generalizes or avoids specific and direct answers, find somebody else who can be honest with you. If the response is “I’ve been in the mortgage business for 18 years” – this is not the question you asked. You are looking for specific reverse mortgage experience and an evasive answer like that shows the character of the individual in question. Move on!

Choosing a Reverse Mortgage Loan Officer – PART II (next post).

Author – Robert H. Irving, CSA®
Senior Reverse Mortgage Consultant

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